This news article says EXACTLY what I am saying!

For those of you who are still disbelievers, too optimistic to really believe that things are really this way in NYC, or those of you who are STILL thinking of relocating to NYC. I think you will find this article to be an interesting read.

http://www.amny.com/news/local/am-sex0505,0,5350694.story

'Sex and the City' cast: Not our fault

The decade since "Sex and the City" premiered saw the transformation of New York into a real-life set for the show, with gaggles of cosmo-swigging young women chasing the lifestyle it depicts.

The city now teems with glass tower condos and swank shops that have displaced affordable apartments as well as small businesses that cater to longtime New Yorkers.

So is it the show's fault that your corner diner was knocked down for a condo and places like Third Avenue in Murray Hill are overrun with Samantha clones? No way, says the actor Chris Noth, who plays Mr. Big on the show and in its big-screen treatment, which premieres May 30.

"Look, there's always been plenty of fashion in New York, and it's never going to die," Noth said yesterday at a roundtable discussion with the film's cast and director at the Mandarin Oriental Hotel. "But this show didn't create 40-story tall buildings and it doesn't negate [that] either."

Cast members yesterday conceded that they were familiar with the critique that "Sex and the City" helped launch these changes by drawing out-of-towners hell bent on living the life at all cost.

High-priced designer labels and extravagant lifestyles have been as much a part of the series as its four female stars -- Sarah Jessica Parker, Kim Cattrall, Kristin Davis and Cynthia Nixon.

Nixon, for her part, is all too familiar with these bright-eyed girls.

"When people come up to me on the street and say, 'I just got here from Iowa two weeks ago. Your show made me come. I'm like, 'Oh no,'" said Nixon, who plays reprising Miranda Hobbes. "People do come here looking for love, but what do they find?"

Quite possibly bad luck in love, cramped apartments, shopping trips that don't include Fifth Avenue and life in a borough other than Manhattan.

In contrast to Miranda's experience where a cab driver wouldn't even cross the Brooklyn Bridge, that is not the case any more. And what was Miranda's unthinkable move to that "other" borough is now the norm for many 20- and 30-somethings.

In a city facing relentless neighborhood gentrification, Noth says he is a strong advocate of old New York. The actor mentioned his support of a movement to keep the 13th Street Repertory Theater and other city mainstays alive.

"We're losing a lot of our stoops and coffee shops and things like that," Noth said. "These are places to come together. It's hard to get together under the shadow of a 40-story building."

Michael Patrick King, writer and director of the film, said fans should keep in mind that the series and film don't exactly reflect reality. They should, in a sense, watch with a shaded view -- even if those shades are Gucci.

"I think the movie reflects your life but with a really big budget," King said. "It is a fantastical reflection of the lives of women around the world."

The case of the uptight travelling nurse

A few years ago, three and a half years to be exact, when I first started my adventures in online dating in manhattan, one of my first dates was with a traveling nurse from florida. This was way before my obvious "final conclusions" were made about NYC women. She seemed nice enough, so I went out on three dates with her. Being that she lived in manhattan, but had just moved to NYC, she did not have the whole elitism thing going on about people who live outside of manhattan, "the bridge and tunnel crew". On the third date I took her back to my apartment and tried, as is expected by most "normal" women, to have sex with her on the third date. I ended up sleeping with her, but she did not want to have sex, no matter how hard I pushed the issue. Anyway, I drove her home the next day and I never heard from her again (Similar to what all uptight NYC women do if the "S" word is even implied!). She was one of the more memorable people I have dated, so every now and then I type her profile into match, just to check if she is still there "If she is still single", only to prove my own points. Three and a half years later, although she has moved to many different places since now (obviously single all this time, since she has been on match.com without any breaks), and she is still on match.com, living back in NYC. I had a private joke going with a friend saying "I guarantee she will end up back in NYC" for the past 3 years since she was so uptight, you know, "birds of a feather flock together". She is back in manhattan now, and I'll bet the farm, that she is here to stay. I guess after being a traveling nurse, moving to 5 or 6 different cities over the past few years, she could not find anyplace else where it was considered cool to be single and not give up sex for the rest of her life. She will fit in perfectly with all the other uptight NYC "women".

My box office predictions for the upcoming "Sex and the city" movie

Well, I'll just bet that all you NYC women (I think that in NYC calling females "women" is way to flattering a term for what they really are!) are just creaming in your pants waiting for the "sex and the city" movie coming out at the end of may. You have heard it here first, my prediction for the movie nationwide is that it will do about average at the box office. In NYC, however, I am predicting that the movie will set new records for the first few weeks it is out. I have a feeling that on opening night, lines at theaters will be several city blocks long, filled with all sorts of no personality, NYC female "drones" who style their personalities and lives after Carrie Bradshaw, Miranda, Samantha, and Charlotte. You will see them in their typical groups at restaurants close to all the theaters, talking about how much they love sex and the city, what is going to happen with Big and Carrie, all the men they date, and bragging about how much he wanted "it", and he did not get any, then talking about what jerks and assholes NYC men are since they like sex. Well folks, you heard it here first, one month beforehand.

More things low sex drive manhattan women say

This is a repost of:

http://nosexinnyc.blogspot.com/2007/10/10-lines-woman-say-that-indicate-they.html

I have removed lines that I hear less often and added some more that I have been hearing of NYC women saying alot lately from friends and online blogs similar to mine.

1. All my sisters & friends have boyfriends and husbands. I'm the only one not in a relationship.

Ask her where she is from. 90% of the time she is from bumblefuck and moved here because she was ostracized for being the prude back home since she does not like men/sex. Her family/friends started giving her so much shit about why she was still single at 25. Whats a girl to do in that position, move to the only place where it is socially acceptable to be single for life, where, NYC of course. From my experience most of the chicks on match.com say this is the reason they are on there.

2. I can't believe some guy hit on me the other day! The nerve!

These woman if you ask them say they want a guy, true love, a relationship, whatever! These same woman if you approach them will humor you for a few seconds to get their validation and then blow you out on the spot. This way when their family/friends in bumblefuck start talking about their husbands and significant others they can come back by talking about how they get hit on all the time. NYC women love validation and they hate sex. They then go complaining to their therapist how they cant find a man. The real savvy ones pretend they are interested long enough for you to buy them dinner, take them to shows, etc. NYC women don't realize that men, unlike themselves, do need sex and most will not put up without not getting if for more than a few dates.


3. My last relationship? I, um, um... Well, I um, let's see... well, I dated this guy a couple of times...

Again this is one you hear over and over again in the online dating world, or the dating world in general as it applies to NYC! These women date each man as long as the man will put up with not getting any sex and as soon as he goes for it she bails out faster than Clark Kent changes into superman. These girls hate sex as they date dozens of men, some of which they like, but their shirt didn't match their tie on the third date so they dont give it up (At least that is what they tell themselves, but here, we know better). NYC women have all kinds of ridiculous excuses for not having sex with men. They should just flat out say "I don't like sex" and just save everyones time.

4. All men want is sex! How disgusting!

Translation from female speak:

"Sex with men is disgusting" in other words "I don't like sex with men" or "I don't like men" for that matter.

All this and she still needs a therapist to tell her why she is still single!

5. I run 7 days a week and 3 marathons a year.

See my previous post about this!

6. Ewww! They're making out! That's so gross! She's actually going home with him, what a slut!

This reminds me of one time at the sutton place bars in midtown, unanymously voted as the most bitchy uptight bars anywhere in the world! I picked up this very attractive school teacher girl. We were making out by the bar and I actually overheard woman after woman saying the same exact lines: "Oh my god, look at that, doesn't she have any respect for herself" I swear I heard 3 women saying almost the exact same thing. It never ceases to amaze me how women all seem to be in sync. I mean put a bunch of them in a room long enough and their fucking periods sync up. In NYC women know that sex is the only weapon they have against men. Women who do have sex are ostracized here since if all women gave up sex, they would loose that power. Also, these are the same women who were ostracized in bumblefuck since they were the only one of their friends who did not like sex, why do you think they moved here. Isn't feminism grand!

7. I'm an attorney.

Lawyers, do they make them any more uptight than that. I guess if you work 15 hours a day, sex is a definite second to um, everything else!

8. It is so much easier for a man to meet a woman than it is for a woman to meet a man!

I cannot even begin to tell you how many times I have heard this one. If low sex drive woman was in a dictionary this line would be the definition. Easier for a man to meet a woman, WHAT! Are you on crack! In NYC as a middle class average Joe, I have to go to the bars for 6 months straight, assuming there are girls there(Which these days is really asking alot!), hit on 5 or 6 of them each time, and then mabey if I am EXTREMELY lucky I will get some. Any girl, all she has to do is go to the bar and sit there. With so many desperate sexually frustrated men around, it takes about 5 seconds.

9. I moved to Manhattan because I LUV, LUV, LUV Sex and The City!

Back to Sex & the city. The cultural cancer that I believe is the main reason NYC has deteriorated so much over the past few years. If this is the case, chances are she is here to meet a rich guy since all the characters in sex and the city have one. Unless you have a multi-million dollar trust/hedge fund, or you are a celebrity, grab your wallet and run!

10. I dont want to have kids.

In NYC that is saying I dont like sex, I dont need sex, I have no desire for sex whatsoever and the only use you are to me as a man is drinks, dinner, and more importantly, validation.

11. I have been on match.com for four straight years and I am still single!

Read this:

http://nosexinnyc.blogspot.com/2008/03/another-line-to-watch-out-for-dating-in.html

What the Seattle bartender says about NYC

So I have been traveling the country job interviewing the past couple of weeks. I am in Seattle right now and last night, I was hanging around at my hotel bar. I struck a conversation with the beautiful and nice female bartender. She asked me where I was from and I told her I am in NYC but I will be moving in the next few weeks. She promptly asked "So what is with the women in NYC. I hear alot of guys interviewing out here complaining that NYC women are bitches" Just like that she says this out of the blue. Well, I have to say, it was like pushing a locomotive down the hill. I took that thread and ran with it. By the end of the conversation, she really knew what it was like in NYC and could not believe that these NYC women who were perpetually single could be that way. It turns out that she is married and she does not like her husband because he is not satisfying her in bed and she was thinking about giving him an ultimatum that if he does not start paying attention to her in the sack, she will have to get it somewhere else. Being in NYC so long, I forgot that normal women even think about sex. What a fucking relief! At this point I will be moving to either Las Vegas or Seattle in a couple of weeks. Good riddance to that shithole called "the greatest city on earth".